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SO HERE I AM AND IM WONDERING YOU KNOW WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO SHOW A WOMAN THAT YOU ARE ACTUALLY NOT PLAYING ANY MIND GAMES, OR THAT YOU TRULY DO WANT TO BE WITH HER

I COME TO REALIZE, THAT 99% OF WOMEN HAVE BEEN HURT IN THE PAST AND THAT THEY DON'T WANNA GO THROUGH THE SAME STUFF THAT THE LAST GUY PUT HER THROUGH, OR THE LAST COUPLE GUYS MAY HAVE PUT HER THROUGH.... I HEAR SO MANY WOMEN SAY IM GONNA JUST GIVE UP ON LOVE, WHY GIVE UP ON LOVE??? LOVE DIDN'T HURT YOU, IT WAS A STUPID PERSON THAT DIDN'T KNOW WHAT LOVE MEANT, THAT HURT YOU!!

I MEAN COME ON FELLAS, IT DOESN'T TAKE MUCH TO PROVE TO A FEMALE THAT YOU ARE WHO YOU SAY YOU ARE, I MEAN DARN ITS NOT LIKE SHE IS TRYING TO CHANGE WHO YOU ARE, SHE JUST WANTS A REAL MAN, OR A REAL YOU.....I MEAN BY TELLING HER ALL THE LIES AND FEEDING HER THE SAME OLD STUFF THAT EVERY OTHER GUY FED HER THEN YOU GONNA END UP IN THE SAME SITUATION THAT THEY DID......

I MEAN FELLAS JUST BE YOURSELF, I MEAN I KNOW THERE ARE SITUATIONS TO WHERE YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY, OR SHE HAS YOU SPEECHLESS, BUT I MEAN IF YOU JUST BE YOURSELF, I MEAN YOU MIGHT SAY SOME LAME CORNBALL TYPE SENTENCE OR SOMETHING BUT IF SHE REALLY IS DIGGING YOU THEN SHE WONT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT.....BUT IF YOU ARE TELLING HER SOMETHING SHE HEARS ALL THE TIMES FROM GUYS THAT'S ALWAYS TRYING TO HOLLER AT HER, CHANCES ARE YOU AREN'T GONNA GET ANYWHERE.........

SECONDLY, IF YOU GET TO THE POINT TO WHERE YOU ARE GONNA TAKE A FEMALE OUT, AND YOU WANNA SHOW HER THAT YOU ARE A REAL MAN, AND THAT YOU ARE WHO YOU SAY YOU ARE, DON'T TELL HER ABOUT IT, SHOW HER ABOUT IT, I MEAN YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVE A LOT OF MONEY TO SHOW A WOMAN A GOOD TIME.... I MEAN YOU KNOW TAKE HER TO A NICE RESTAURANT, YOU KNOW CALIFORNIA DREAMING, AND THE PARK, IF YOU CANT DO THAT, APPLEBEES MIGHT EVEN WORK YOU KNOW, I MEAN WOMEN UNDERSTAND THAT MONEY DOESN'T GROW ON TREES, JUST SHOW HER A NICE TIME AND BE GENUINE AND SHE WILL RESPECT THAT,

NOW WHILE YOU ARE ON THIS DATE I'M PRETTY SURE IT WONT HURT YOU TO OPEN DOORS, MAYBE HOLD HER HAND IN PUBLIC, PUT YOUR ARM AROUND HER SHOULDER, YOU KNOW, LET HER SIT DOWN FIRST, ASK HER IF SHE IS COMFORTABLE, GIVE HER A NICE INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATION, COMPLIMENT HER ON HOW SHE LOOKS, WHEN I SAY THAT, I DON'T MEAN (SEXY/CUTE), TELL HER SHE LOOKS (NICE/BEAUTIFUL/GORGEOUS/AMAZING), THAT IS A *REAL MAN* COMPLIMENT, ONE THAT UNDERSTANDS THE MANY DIMENSIONS OF A WOMAN.....DON'T JUST SIT THERE IN SILENCE, I MEAN JUST TREAT HER LIKE ROYALTY.....I MEAN SPEAK RESPECTFULLY TO HER, IF YOU MEET THE PARENTS, SPEAK RESPECTFULLY TO THEM, I MEAN IT WILL NOT HURT TRUST ME,

FINALLY, BUT ONCE YOU GET THIS DONE A COUPLE OF TIMES, DON'T THINK IT IS OVER BC SHE IS FINALLY YOUR WOMAN, OR JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE GOTTEN CLOSE WITH HER, THAT'S EVEN THE MORE REASON TO TREAT HER LIKE A QUEEN, A WOMAN WANTS A MAN THAT IS GONNA CATER TO HER, I MEAN DON'T JUST TREAT HER LIKE A QUEEN ONCE SO SHE THINKS THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE ABOUT, YOU SHOULD TREAT HER LIKE A QUEEN EVEN WHEN YOU DON'T SEE HER, SO SHE KNOWS THAT YOU ARE A *REAL MAN*, NOTICE I SAID *REAL MAN*, FAKE GUYS YOU CAN FOLLOW THIS TOO, I MEAN IT MIGHT WORK FOR YOU FOR A MINUTE BUT I'M PRETTY SURE YOU WILL GO BACK TO YOUR OLD WAYS, THAT'S WHY THIS IS FOR MEN ONLY........

BUT I MEAN FELLAS, IF YOU FOLLOW THESE STEPS, I'M PRETTY SURE SHE WILL BE TALKING ABOUT YOU FOR DAYS, MAYBE WEEKS, MONTHS, YEARS, AND IF YOU HAVE *THE LUCKY ONE* MAYBE EVEN A LIFETIME........

you never see it coming but you always see it go..everyone says love hurts but does it? loneliness hurts, rejection hurts, losing someone hurts, envy hurts. its THE repercussions of love that hurts and in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel good again. love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt. we just never seem to find it

BUT ALSO LADIES, DON'T GET THIS WRONG OR CONFUSED WE AS MEN DO LIKE WOMEN THAT CAN HANDLE A MAN. A WOMAN THAT CAN COOK OR AT LEAST A WOMAN THAT MAY BE WILLING TO TAKE A MAN ON A DATE ONCE IN A WHILE.. YOU DON'T HAVE TO SPEND MONEY ON A MAN, JUST SPEND TIME... GO TO THE PARK AND JUST TALK, SIT IN AND WATCH A MOVIE WITH HIM, WATCH A BBALL GAME OR FOOTBALL GAME WITH HIM.. BUT IN WHATEVER IF YOU ARE INTO HIM... JUST SHOW HIM THAT BEING IN HIS PRESENCE MEANS EVERYTHING TO YOU